• mel (malt)
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    28 days ago

    probably bdd because getting a job and boyfriend would be a lot easier

  • 1cell_organism
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    28 days ago

    I’m going to try and make a case for being honfident (if you’re in a safe area). My issue with bdd is that it encourages the victim to stay inside and avoid people, and if you do that you are guaranteed to have little female socialization. Even if you look fine, the maleness of the soul will remain. I joke a lot about how you can get away with anything if you’re conventionally attractive which is true to some extent but not socializing with women at all will make your personality and priorities stay male. You will never soulpass. And I think the older you are, the more difficult it is to change your personality. I think I can see the appeal of being honfident and having friends versus attractive and alone.

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    28 days ago

    If I could get a bf/change my sexuality as the hon, then honfident. If not, BDD gigapassoid. I would have to simply be a whole different person to be honfident tho so it’s hard to put myself in those shoes.

  • RtHonAlice
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    28 days ago

    BDD passoid, that way my partner at least has something nice to look at.

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    28 days ago

    I was a bdd passoid so I guess that cause I just have to learn to manage the bdd again

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    28 days ago

    honfident, bdd passoids are still super dysphoric so whats the fucking point