• avidautumn
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    29 days ago

    i think it’s a fairly low bar for a trans space to not enter it and call every trans woman a man. if you’re wormed about yourself then fine but don’t put that on others.

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      yea i agree with that, i mean the way people react to a question like that, like she got told to kill herself and that she wnbaw, got called a retard and an idiot, in true 4tran fashion

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      people here are one step away from being horrible to each other

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          there’s nothing 'wrong" with it, i just hate that the only community i have is one where people are like this

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              u know that’s not true, you think im gonna use mtf or cwcl??

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                  i have too many issues to have hobbies or to do anything, i mostly wanted to vent about something bugging me, not expecting a solution

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    there is nothing wrong with what autumn etc are saying

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      i know, im a sneedhon tho, it’s not my vibe, im too sensitive

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    i think the original comment is incredebly evil and transphobic, yeah. but the response is disgusting, is everyone here stupid? do they think saying stuff like that will make anything better? or i guess it’s just cathartic

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      i dont think its going to change anything. thats why im saying it. im just upset that no matter where i go i cant escape this sentiment. i also dont really understand any morality judgement in which the original comment isnt like a hundred times more evil than any of our responses but its whatever

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        I called the comment evil, you can’t tell me I’m not judging it too. and I get you’re angry, yeah. I am too, I’m just too exhausted from being angry with no results. idk, it’s fine to be angry, justified and normal here. it just feels… counterproductive to talk like that

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          i didnt mean it negatively toward u, sorry if it came off that way. i get it doesnt do anything but to me its the same as complaining about not passing i just feel miserable and dont care anymore cause it feels like nothing will ever change so i say whatever comes to mind

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            that’s fair. that’s what i feel like and do too. actually i was thinking about that earlier, nothing i do makes anything better so i just do what’s first instinct. i guess mine is more pathetic and less angry.

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    “It’s okay were all gonna make it and become women though.”

    Male woman over there has no right to speak for anyone but herself

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    im sorry but male women? Yash its literally textbook transphobia

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      im not talking about that, im talking about how the people react to that, like if she was told something like “trans women are female/trans women change sex/trans women are inherently female but with wrong genitals” that’d have been cool, but instead she was told to khs, got called a retard and that she wnbaw, i think 4tranners can be just as based without doing that