I have very high standards so +80% of men are just not gonna have a chance w me anyways but it’d be nice if one could actually see me as a woman and not as a third gender or a fetish object. The men who I’d actually be into don’t give me a second look, even if they would date a pre-op trans woman because it’s not just having a dick, men can love women with dicks 100% as women, but the collection of sex characteristics I have pushes it over the edge to where they can’t fully see me as a woman. Glad I’m pan and have relations rn that are really nice but its just something I grieve over a lil still