searching for a relationship tends to lead to surface level and inauthentic connections, if you try your best to be a good person to good people around you, attend events for your interests or hobbies to meet like minded people, you’ll find real human connections that a relationship to grow from, you just have to be able to be a friend to people you aren’t yet friends with
pick whatever looks the most fun or the coolest, if you don’t like it then at least you tried something new and maybe learnt something from it, and then pick the next coolest or most fun looking hobby
the coolest hobby, gardening, gaming, knitting, reading, there are so many cool hobbies you can meet people through, I’ve met a lot of awesome people at my fighting game locals, and made some friends and some really good friends from them
the first half is not dooming but the raw truth tho
doom looks like truth to the doomer
I can’t even make friends tho, I have no social skills at all, I don’t even know how relationships even start, do you have to look for it? where? how?
searching for a relationship tends to lead to surface level and inauthentic connections, if you try your best to be a good person to good people around you, attend events for your interests or hobbies to meet like minded people, you’ll find real human connections that a relationship to grow from, you just have to be able to be a friend to people you aren’t yet friends with
the issue is that I have no interests or hobbies at all, I’m hollow minded
pick whatever looks the most fun or the coolest, if you don’t like it then at least you tried something new and maybe learnt something from it, and then pick the next coolest or most fun looking hobby
the coolest out of what T_T the only place I know people go to is parties with alcoholic stuff and such
the coolest hobby, gardening, gaming, knitting, reading, there are so many cool hobbies you can meet people through, I’ve met a lot of awesome people at my fighting game locals, and made some friends and some really good friends from them