the trvke no one wants to hear

  • Maffy
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    22 days ago

    I could maybe find a partner if I wasn’t socially inept. Tho finding anyone who is accepting irl seems near impossible, let alone a partner…

      • Maffy
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        22 days ago

        waaaa I will stop dooming I promiseeee 😭😭

        But genuinely like what do I do. Dating apps???

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          22 days ago

          do your best to put yourself out there, go to places where similar minded people gather, if all you look for is a partner you’ll struggle to find anything authentic, if you try your best to be a good person and a friend to good people you will find human connection, and that is what a relationship grows from. many people want friends but don’t want to take the first step of being a friend until they already have them

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            22 days ago

            Places where similar minded people gather… I tried, can’t find it. Other than this place I mean

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              22 days ago

              they exist, failing that then yeah, people find success on dating apps but it’s not for everyone