FutileTransition1984 to 4tran4 · 1 month agoso many of you could find a partner if you stopped dooming and got off 4tranimagemessage-square69linkfedilinkarrow-up15arrow-down13file-text
arrow-up12arrow-down1imageso many of you could find a partner if you stopped dooming and got off 4tranFutileTransition1984 to 4tran4 · 1 month agomessage-square69linkfedilinkfile-text
minus-squareRistlilinkfedilinkarrow-up2arrow-down1·1 month agoGenuinely, how? Can‘t even make friends…
minus-squareFutileTransition1984OPlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·1 month agoI never said it would be easy, I said it would be possible
minus-squareFutileTransition1984OPlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·1 month agobe a good friend to people who you aren’t friends with yet, relationships tend to grow from authentic human connection of mutual respect
minus-squareRistlilinkfedilinkarrow-up1·1 month agoI‘ll try… I guess my biggest problem is that everyone I meet seems to already have plenty of connections, and I don‘t have anything to offer really.
minus-squareFutileTransition1984OPlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·1 month agopeople who expect you to offer something to them to become friends aren’t friends worth having
Genuinely, how? Can‘t even make friends…
I never said it would be easy, I said it would be possible
Okay, what is the first step?
be a good friend to people who you aren’t friends with yet, relationships tend to grow from authentic human connection of mutual respect
I‘ll try… I guess my biggest problem is that everyone I meet seems to already have plenty of connections, and I don‘t have anything to offer really.
people who expect you to offer something to them to become friends aren’t friends worth having
Hmm yeah makes sense… thanks