Last year I had the splendid idea to travel to Japan with my gf and one of my mates. What I didn’t factor in was getting chosen by progesterone. I am not out to my mate, it will be 25 to 30 degrees and my gf already forbid stewing and overheating in a hoodie. Help me out here, what can I do? I will NOT out myself, everything should stay as it is, this is not an option.

  • Tamara
    2·
    23 days ago

    I wear sports bra and slightly oversized linen blazer for summer heat. Linen breathes, doesn’t overheat and keeps you safe from sun, works perfectly fine for me - I didn’t go out outside in shirt alone in three years.

    Also, umbrella - the sun is what gets you the most.

    • RtHonAliceOP
      2·
      23 days ago

      I do have a linen jacket, rather baggy, that may actually work. I almost forgot I had it, thank you for reminding me. I bought it at the end of last summer, so I didn’t have much opportunity to actually wear it. I’m already wearing sports bras.

      • Tamara
        2·
        23 days ago

        Good luck! I hope it works for you. Embrace vampiremoding, hide from sunlight under umbrella and don’t move too fast to not overheat. People stare, sure, but I’ve heard that in Asia it’s more accepted?

        • RtHonAliceOP
          1·
          23 days ago

          Acceptance isn’t an issue, I will not be attacked or discriminated, but I already got hit with the “Ekkusucruise me, zisu isu fo men” last time when I went to the men’s lavatory there.

          I will try to avoid the sun as much as possible.

              • Tamara
                1·
                23 days ago

                You’re a crossdressing girl, you will never be a boy.

  • Maffy
    1·
    23 days ago

    Well unless binders are an option idk what u can do here… Maybe just, try to convince her to let you give yourself a heatstroke??? She would understand surely…

    • RtHonAliceOP
      2·
      23 days ago

      I really tried, now tried again, she told me to tell you not a chance, my health expenses are already high and I’m the only one out of the three of us who knows some rudimentary Japanese, I’m too important to get knocked out.

      Binders are unhealthy for breast tissue I believe, I would need to wear them for a month, I don’t want to cause damage. Also binders make me feel like a dood or repper :/

      • Maffy
        1·
        23 days ago

        Wait did you tell her that I sent you to ask her again?? 😭😭

        Well tell her I’m sorry then, geez. Like 2 siblings trying to convince their mom or something lmao

        Also yea you might be kinda cooked here.

        • RtHonAliceOP
          2·
          23 days ago

          Wait did you tell her that I sent you to ask her again?? 😭😭

          I did, she wanted to know which advice people here had for me.

          Also yea you might be kinda cooked here.

          Yeah, literally.

  • Irahna
    1·
    23 days ago

    熱中症を頑張ってくださいお姉さん笑笑

    • RtHonAliceOP
      1·
      23 days ago

      妹ちゃんひどい、俺の問題に興味じゃないよ！

      • Irahna
        1·
        23 days ago

        ヤバいすさ…何でもそんながいじめられてますか？😭😭私のユーモアって気になってなさそうですけど…