Last year I had the splendid idea to travel to Japan with my gf and one of my mates. What I didn’t factor in was getting chosen by progesterone. I am not out to my mate, it will be 25 to 30 degrees and my gf already forbid stewing and overheating in a hoodie. Help me out here, what can I do? I will NOT out myself, everything should stay as it is, this is not an option.

  • Tamara
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    2
    ·
    23 days ago

    I wear sports bra and slightly oversized linen blazer for summer heat. Linen breathes, doesn’t overheat and keeps you safe from sun, works perfectly fine for me - I didn’t go out outside in shirt alone in three years.

    Also, umbrella - the sun is what gets you the most.

    • RtHonAliceOP
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      2
      ·
      23 days ago

      I do have a linen jacket, rather baggy, that may actually work. I almost forgot I had it, thank you for reminding me. I bought it at the end of last summer, so I didn’t have much opportunity to actually wear it. I’m already wearing sports bras.

      • Tamara
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        2
        ·
        23 days ago

        Good luck! I hope it works for you. Embrace vampiremoding, hide from sunlight under umbrella and don’t move too fast to not overheat. People stare, sure, but I’ve heard that in Asia it’s more accepted?

        • RtHonAliceOP
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          1
          ·
          23 days ago

          Acceptance isn’t an issue, I will not be attacked or discriminated, but I already got hit with the “Ekkusucruise me, zisu isu fo men” last time when I went to the men’s lavatory there.

          I will try to avoid the sun as much as possible.

              • Tamara
                link
                fedilink
                arrow-up
                1
                ·
                23 days ago

                You’re a crossdressing girl, you will never be a boy.

                  • Tamara
                    link
                    fedilink
                    arrow-up
                    1
                    ·
                    23 days ago

                    ywnbam, foid, I’m not wasting any more time on your delusions