everyone argues who is a passoid or a honlarper or whatnot. so here’s the secret truth woke is hiding from you. it’s actually not as simple as does or doesn’t pass. we can categorise as much as we want with twinkhons or semipassoids, but in some contexts, some features can be fully passing while otherwise being clocky. most trans women are in the grey area to some degree in some parts. and photos are a terrible way to know for sure.
basically stop fighting over this and hug it out instead
i feel that too about a lot of people here who say they don’t pass. but i don’t know, i don’t have cameras following their daily life to see how they get gendered. but i also know that i have a tendency to minimise or excuse being gendered as a woman with excuses when i’m not mentally stable, so it’s kind of impossible to know for sure online
maybe that, some people ignore positive outcomes and overexaggerate single negative ones
i.e. lie on the internet