We don’t have to be divisive. You can pass but still end up with a lot of reasons to be sad. And you never actually have a way of truly knowing if you pass, so who knows, some of you might even be passing right now or you might be a boymoder who could pass if she’d stop it, so maybe think about it?
some people can’t voice train, and still, don’t act like you’re some kind of guru just because some things ended up working for you specifically. not everything is one-size-fits-all
Oh absolutely, I know that none of this stuff works for everyone, that’s why I think we need more ideas. Like maybe they could help someone, and with enough ideas, this could all stop being a miserable and difficult experience for everyone.