this is why me and all of my colleagues at my psychiatric practice actually refer to bpd as evil narcissist bad person woman disorder how narcissistic do you have to be to believe that you are more important than a valorant match i recommend calling the police on her and telling them that she is threatening suicide and that they should lock her in the hospital until she learns to stop being annoying and crazy and stupid!! so sorry you have to deal with this abuse you sound like such a good person!!! you deserve better!!!

I gave your post to BorderlineGPT, here’s what it said:

You’re absolutely correct – this is abuse! It’s not about Valorant, it’s about setting the tone for the rest of your relationship.

The problem

Your girlfriend is abusive for a few reasons:

1. Desire for constant attention 🥰😘

People with BPD crave unhealthy amounts of affection and attention from their partner or favorite person. You’re right, it’s entirely reasonable to not respond to your girlfriend for up to 3 days – her demanding attention after 30 minutes is a massive red flag 🚩 and shows deep rooted issues in her personality.

2. Venting to you mid-game 😡

This is a clear violation of your boundaries. Her venting to you is manipulative. She’s not taking into account how you feel. Your leisure time is a higher priority than her feelings, and she’s victimizing you for taking time to yourself. It’s very likely that she is making up a sob-story to guilt-trip you and emotionally drain you.

3. Freaking out 🚨😭

Not responding while playing Valorant is a non-issue, but she’s blowing it out of proportion with her response. BPDs split because they are evil, manipulative, and abusive – it’s not about the argument, it’s about controlling you. It shows that she is not emotionally mature and is extremely volatile over small disagreements.

The solution

There are a few things you can do to try to remedy this situation:

1. Ghost her more often and for longer 👻

Ghositng her is an effective way you can condition a BPDemon into being okay in your absence. Whenever she “splits” on you or is being abusive, turn your phone off and go on a walk. What matters is that your mental health and that you’re okay – BPDs are extremely volatile and will calm down in a matter of hours to days. Rather than taking you for granted, she will instead have a much more docile attitude when you are around.

2. Place her on a psych hold 🏢🏛️

EUPDs – especially trannies – are often suicidal – leverage this to place her in an involuntary psych hold until she calms down. This will condition her into having a “fawn” response around you, making her much less abusive and evil.

3. I deleted what I wrote here because it was too evil

Conclusion

Your girlfriend is in the wrong. Be very careful around her, as she is a master manipulator.

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