• greyhoundedBanned
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    2 months ago

    What makes you happy with how you look and act, passing doesnt make you happy?

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      2 months ago

      there is a very stark difference conceptually between being happy with how you look and passing, people conflate the two all the time and expect that passing will mean that they’re finally happy with how they look, which in most cases is not the way things go

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        2 months ago

        True, passing doesnt equal beautiful, you can be ugly and passing, I kinda just forgot