being happy with how u look seems impossible tho
its more of a mental wall- being content enough and able to stand looking at yourself in a mirror without wanting to sever your optic nerve is a better way of putting it
that still seems rly hard
What makes you happy with how you look and act, passing doesnt make you happy?
there is a very stark difference conceptually between being happy with how you look and passing, people conflate the two all the time and expect that passing will mean that they’re finally happy with how they look, which in most cases is not the way things go
True, passing doesnt equal beautiful, you can be ugly and passing, I kinda just forgot
is see passing more as an obstacle to achieve happiness, than what would actually make me happy
