it sounds as exciting as any other kind of relationship, just different. in a good way. it must be nice to be understood on that level. im picky though, i’d only want t4t if we were both passoids or semipassoids. not because of looks, but because passoids/semipassoids tend to be more stable. like no offense but i cant deal with other trans people’s bellyaching over their own collarbone or their height or IWNBAM/IWNBAW or something like that. i am not like that, despite being unable to transition yet. we gotta be on the same level of confident/self-esteem/transition journey here. so… maybe i’m the one who is not as understanding.