Comment your chosen name and let others rate it on scale from 0 - for name so cis that no tranny could have possibly picked it; to 10 - for most tranny name imaginable. Can be your second choice name you left behind. Can add country or ethnicity for context.
Gender neutral names instantly make me wonder if the person is trans. Ashley is really nice, although it sounds more Millenial. I would give 8/10 to Ashton (would make me think you’re theyfab) and 5/10 to Ashley (since it can really go both ways) - I’d personally have chosen it if I was American/English.