how am i supposed to know whether i malefailed or not if nobody around me sir’s or ma’ams me and everyone sort of just doesn’t gender me at all. nobody really points out my gender at all until someone else does, like i dont get he/himed, they/themed, or she/her’d.
i really do want to girlmode but i can’t unless ik for sure if i pass
I would say you have to meet strangers and then see how they interact with you in yk social peer situations… if they include you socially among the girls, you pass… idk something like that