I know this is a quite insensitive question and I’m sorry about that. My intent isn’t to downplay people here as faketrans or to say I’m “trannier than thou”, if it comes off as that, I’m truly sorry, from the bottom of my heart. It’s just that I’ve been really perplexed about this for the longest time.

If it isn’t clear yet: I’m a youngshit. I know people here get really upset at reading anything youngshit related so I’ll try to not extend myself too much: classic youngshit backstory (I’ll talk a bit about how I realized I was trans, if you don’t want to read this but still want to answer the question, please skip this paragraph and read the next one!), knew it since very early childhood, even before I knew what a trans person was I knew something was wrong with my gender and that I wasn’t a boy, even though people insisted that I was one. When I learned what being trans meant, about when I was ten to eleven years old, I immediately knew that this was what I was, got on hrt at thirteen after getting a part time job, I’m about to turn nineteen now.

I never thought of myself as better than midshits or lateshits, I always saw them as people who have been living in unfortunate times and/or places, who knew they were trans but never had the opportunity to do something towards their gender dysphoria until they already went through natal puberty. However, some time ago I found out that some people genuinely never knew they were trans until puberty, and some only figuring out they’re trans long after puberty, not only that, but many engaged in more stereotypically masculine things too, such as working out and “masculine-coded” hobbies (other way around for trans men). I know none of these people are faketrans (not that I believe in that bullshit), since all of you display really heavy dysphoria, which just confuses me way more. Once again, I apologize if I offended anyone, it wasn’t my intention, I’m just really curious.

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        I mean if cis people enforce gender stereotypes on trannies it’s not really their fault and you shouldn’t blame them when they get blamed by real life cis people who stereotype them and treat them like they agab because of it.

        I don’t think male and female brained is a real thing but trannies are mocked for it if they meet up with the expectation of cis people (especially woman)

        There are so many posts made by cis people abt trannies being fake trans because they personally or interests were not female coded.

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                I feel like anytime you have this conversation you assume the absolute worst abt the person you’re talking to.

                I don’t believe in male or fembrained stuff

                I wish I didn’t have to abide to any rules but I live in the real world where cis woman are judgy and do treat you worse based on your personality because it’s not female enough.

                Cis people dont have these expectations we do and we pay the consequences not them.

                You can blame trannies all you would but it doesn’t take away they will be a group of cis women mocking a trans woman for likening some malebrained game or whatever and that they will only hang out with soulpassing trannies.

                I don’t see the point in fighting this What you see is an outcome that will never happen because it hurts us and leaves us ostracised