i really tried my best but i don’t think it mattered because i started hrt too late. i can’t seem to delude myself either it just feels like it’s over and i don’t know what to do

  • Lengthofdry1943
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    1 month ago

    pets, community, t4t, drinking, drugs, collecting, gardening. its really about tempering emotion and fantasy honestly because both can lie to you and just ruin your sense of reality akin to what it actually is, but not withstanding that it sucks or whatevs.

    • thrwy809OP
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      1 month ago

      i can’t find community or t4t bc im socially anxious and im anxious because i don’t pass. i feel like every cope is just locked behind passing for me

      • Lengthofdry1943
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        1 month ago

        i dont pass, i got raped so i mistrust relationships, but i still am human and need contact. i just got burnt out worrying about things and have started to learn to reach out, like im doing right now. cope or not, things are never easy to grasp without the failure in working to attain them. its also the fact you make the effort even after failure that change starts to develop.