That our actions, appearance, the way we present ourselves is what decides our gender sounds sexist. The consept sounds like, what makes us our gender is the societal roles (gender roles) we choose to embrace. But, if a cis womban wanted to choose to embrace mens’ societal roles, would that mean that she is a man? or that she is more of a man than a woman?
It just sounds sexist idk… maybe I’m just being a trad
yes, i also sometime see terfs point this out too and its so annoying when nearly everyone is like “gender doesnt equal sex” and then the terf goes “seee look the TRAs are sexist omg” and Im like “nooo u got it all wrong terf ur argument is invalid” but then the terf points to all the allies and sneeds proclaiming that ackshually they can “identify” as women cuz they like dresses or smth and that sex is still immutable blah blah male women blah blah internalized cissexism blah blah
makes me want to kms