That our actions, appearance, the way we present ourselves is what decides our gender sounds sexist. The consept sounds like, what makes us our gender is the societal roles (gender roles) we choose to embrace. But, if a cis womban wanted to choose to embrace mens’ societal roles, would that mean that she is a man? or that she is more of a man than a woman?

It just sounds sexist idk… maybe I’m just being a trad