i sometimes see people here talk about having literal friends while not being out and i just get so fucking confused each time because how does that even happen? after trooning out i just couldnt. i couldnt do this shit. even if i look like a man, being deadnamed, misgendered and treated like a man by ‘friends’ hurts mentally so much more than just being alone. so much so that its been years since i had irl friends

  • RtHonAlice
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    2 months ago

    I don’t want everything to be about being trans. I want to be more than my disease. If they find out, so be it. But I’ll not tell them on my own.

    • theirsairOP
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      2 months ago

      well if you can stomach the being treated like a man thing, misgendered and deadnamed then sure i guess

      • RtHonAlice
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        2 months ago

        Yeah, misgendering and deadnaming doesn’t bother me much. And nobody who knows me treats me like a man, kek.

        • theirsairOP
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          2 months ago

          nobody who knows me treats me like a man

          hon in the name

          i keep falling for this shit… please honlarpers give me a break :(

          • RtHonAlice
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            2 months ago

            My dysphoria is still very bad if that helps…but yeah, my username is stolen valour and I mainly picked it because I thought the usual abbreviation for Right Honourable was funny.