This feels weird to wear, but kind of cozy. A lot more comfortable for my chest, too. is this AGP?

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      For the first time I wore one I felt like disgusting sissy and almost cried. Maybe enbies are just built different

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        This will 100% be me… I will probably spiral really badly at every one of these kind of occasions and be assaulted by my mind with thoughts of detrooning out of shame, discomfort and fear

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          It passed after crying and wearing it for a day to think “damn, this thing is comfy”. Now I wear bras daily. It was in December.

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            Yeah… I just hope these moments won’t break me so much that I essentially spiral and idk either kill myself or detroon…

            I could never imagine wearing a bra…

            I will just boymode forever… I will wear so many hoodies… maybe even a binder to hide it all from my family… fuck what am I gonna do regarding family… they’ll tell me to take of my hoodie… I won’t survive this. I will probably die.

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              My family didn’t notice my almost-B-cups in a wireless bra so there’s a lot of time. Don’t even think about binders, or you may slightly damage the growth. Just tell your family “no” you’re an adult, and if they notice something, tell it’s gynecomastia and they won’t say a word afterwards, and will probably understand you hiding it on top of that.

              After you force yourself to do something what every normal woman does and see that it’s really nothing, barrier break. You will not die. Also, yeah, I know, easy to say - to this day I never wore a dress or skirt myself…

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                Just say “No”. You’re an adult.

                May family is extremely touchy… I mean extremely touchy and doesn’t respect boundaries or personal space and I can’t just leave. The emotional pressure is too much so I always end up visiting or sleeping at their place for multiple days and I don’t have my own room and I don’t have that kind of personal space with them

                My family didn’t notice…

                My family already suspects stuff and already is very surveillance obsessed when it comes to me so they’ll notice it

                Just say its Gynocomastia

                I am very very skinny and can’t gain weight well and my brother has gynocomastia and I never had any kind of weight and my family has seen me shirtless hundreds of times and I never had that kind of personal space for them to not know exactly how my body looks and notice changes

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                  I’m so sorry… I don’t know what to say. It sounds scary to me.