I understand not wanting to talk about the details, which then obviously means I can’t judge for myself because I have no idea what happened.

But if the implication here is that she acted mean some months ago because of her mental illness, I don’t see how that’s a big enough reason to warrant some wider condemnation. This site has a lot of people with mental illnesses, and people with mental illnesses are sometimes difficult to deal with. So unless we’re talking about some predator stuff or other sicko shit, I think it would be cool if people could just talk things out normally between each other and just work things out by apologizing and taking accountability.