How? How? How? How? How? I know it’s because some of you are larping as dysfunctional, but how?

  • giuli9
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    4 days ago

    We met on 4tran 💀, he coincidentally moved to my country, we started chatting every day, i visited him for a weekend, asked him out afterwards and he said yes

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      4 days ago

      So what your saying is I have to find a transman from here in the same country as me…📝noted noted.

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        4 days ago

        Extra advice try to find one who doesn’t have a horrendous family situation and isn’t suicidal all the time

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            True kinda but if you can avoid moments where you think he’s dead and you‘ll never see him again then that‘d be good…

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          Ive dated a few suicidal cis guys those times where you don’t know if they’re alive are horrible

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            I love never knowing if i‘ll hear from him tomorrow

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              I once had a guy who joked about killing himself after previously being suicidal i had to be in tears telling him to not joke like that and how much he scared me when he was like that to get him to stop.

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                  Im a push over and the second he half heartedly apologized i was all over him again

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      4 days ago

      Tried this it just leads to me learning some card game that I find super boring and then getting ghosted by the third date.