• wormeyesOP
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    15 hours ago

    when i was 4 or 5 i asked my mom if boys were allowed marry other boys. she said in some countries it was allowed. i wonder if she said something else would i even develop gender dysphoria

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    15 hours ago

    maybe? but fundamentally there is a ur gay or not like gene, that can be developed on by conditioning

    • CutePlushies
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      15 hours ago

      This is it yah. You’re born androphilic but conditioning impacts how it manifests

  • Mar.
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    15 hours ago

    Sometimes I wonder the same. I probably would have been a normal woman, had my father not abused me as a child. There’s probably some link there, yes. But aren’t you straight, you like men?

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      15 hours ago

      i am a homosexual who injects sugar water every week

      • Mar.
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        15 hours ago

        I wish I could hold you in my palm, little worm lady. I would feed you banana slices and grass

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          14 hours ago

          ur too nice i literally get embarrassed and dont know how to respond to ur comments 😭

          • Mar.
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            13 hours ago

            Please don’t be nervous, I’m glad my silly little comments distract you from the unhelpful thoughts, even if just for a moment.

  • Vlevleee
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    15 hours ago

    I ask myself this every day. My father always told me to my face that he wanted a daughter, and he always treated any niece with more affection than he treated me. Damn, He treated my girlfriends with more kindness than he ever treated me…

    I always end up wondering… Did I become a troon to get my father’s attention? To see if he loves me for being what he always wanted?

    He hates that I’m trans, btw.

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    15 hours ago

    I feel like I was born attracted to men, but the father thing influenced my particular interest in kinds of men.

    I think that’s how it goes for most of us who are androphilic

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    15 hours ago

    i want to say btw he wasnt neglectful or anything, he just didnt rlly like me