Whenever I see trans girls complain about their hair and compare themselves to cis girls it’s kinda funny. A good chunk of girls with really nice hair have extensions or wear wigs. Especially celebrities.

“I wish I had her waist.”

If she’s fully clothed she’s probably wearing a waist trainer.

“I wish my boobs-”

Push up bra.

“I wish-”

That photo is AI.

All ts is fake

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    13 hours ago

    Even if I a woman just got out of bed… she mogs me… this post in some ways is stupid

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      I’m talking about a very specific kind of posting I see doomering about really superficial traits. A waist trainer and a wig isn’t going to make you pass if you look like a man lmao

      Though I think both would help if you’re semi passing

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        I didnt say you were wrong… It just sounds sneedy like saying “don’t worry hon, women are secretly all ugly trolls… just like you :3” and that’s why the post made me angry.

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          Yeah it’s kinda hugbox-ish.

          It’s just annoying to see girls being like “iwnbaw. My hair will never look like hers” and I can see her lace in the picrel

          There’s better things to focus on really

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    14 hours ago

    A good chunk doesn’t mean everyone or even most. What a sneedy post…

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      Depends on where you’re at ig but a lot of girl I know wear wigs, extensions, get their lashes done, etc.

      Things like the face are worth doomering about but I dont see the point in seeing a girl online, especially a celebrity, and beating yourself up over some shit she didn’t grow herself.

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        Celebrities sure, lashes and extensions too. I just dislike when people water down dysphoria to “every woman is faking it anyway”. I don’t mean that you don’t have a point, but a lot of cis women don’t really have to put much effort into it.

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          That’s true, most cis women dont have to put an effort into looking like a woman because they’re women lol. dysphoria is valid when it comes to most traits. I’m more talking more about trying to reach an aesthetic thats not obtainable for most women through anything but artificial means

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    The thing is we are a minority. As a minority we will never be judged by cissoid standards, minorities always have it harder. She, the construction worker’s daughter with the wide back, was just unfortunate, but he, the hon, is a creepy abomination. We can’t just look like average cissoids to live in peace, we have to surpass them by a substantial margin. We have to mog them so badly there is no coming back for them. And if they use tools that make mogging them harder, then we have to surpass them nonetheless. It changes nothing but the hardship we face in doing so. Victory or death, I’m determined to come out on top, I will not be treated like scum, that much I promise.

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    youre right, that gives me some hope ty <3

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      Tbh a lot of girls just need a decent wig or a good human hair extensions, and a waist trainer.

      A good amount of girls I know regularly wear both lol

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        best thing ive read today. thats reassuring :]

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    Still would mog me cause you can’t fix moid face and shr without a bajillion into surgeries

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      Yeah I didn’t say anything about the face for a reason lol