• puppyoomfOP
    2·
    6 days ago

    how can i talk to someone about depression and dysphoria without it being offensive or that im just trauma dumping or stuff like that

    • nowhere
      2·
      6 days ago

      ‘hey can i talk to you abt something important’ and just talk a bit. take lots of pauses and give them lots of outs if they get uncomfortable.

      • puppyoomfOP
        2·
        6 days ago

        ive been really avoiding her though. woulndt it be unfair of me to ask her to listen to me

          • puppyoomfOP
            3·
            6 days ago

            i feel so disgusting i dont want to talk to her someone like me shouldnt talk to her

            • nowhere
              2·
              6 days ago

              let her decide if she wants you to talk to her or not. youre dating, no? she probably is comfortable, even happy, for you to talk to her.