• puppyoomfOP
      2·
      1 day ago

      how can i talk to someone about depression and dysphoria without it being offensive or that im just trauma dumping or stuff like that

      • nowhere girl
        2·
        1 day ago

        ‘hey can i talk to you abt something important’ and just talk a bit. take lots of pauses and give them lots of outs if they get uncomfortable.

        • puppyoomfOP
          2·
          1 day ago

          ive been really avoiding her though. woulndt it be unfair of me to ask her to listen to me

            • puppyoomfOP
              3·
              1 day ago

              i feel so disgusting i dont want to talk to her someone like me shouldnt talk to her

              • nowhere girl
                2·
                1 day ago

                let her decide if she wants you to talk to her or not. youre dating, no? she probably is comfortable, even happy, for you to talk to her.