the bf:

good:

• seems to want to be a man (fully transitioning)
• compliments brainwormed gf and cares about her
• tries to console her

bad:

• self identifies as afab

the gf:

good:

• is a woman (since i’m a woman i’m biased towards women)
• dysphoric

bad:

• snaps at her bf
• outwardly brainwormed
• makes no effort to transition or pass
• no hrt
• worms about not having feminine shape despite not taking hrt
• calls her bf “not really trans” (i could get this if her bf wasn’t transitioning…but he’s literally transitioning more than she even is)

actually nvm i decided the gf is def in the wrong here