the bf:
good:
- seems to want to be a man (fully transitioning)
- compliments brainwormed gf and cares about her
- tries to console her
bad:
- self identifies as afab
the gf:
good:
- is a woman (since i’m a woman i’m biased towards women)
- dysphoric
bad:
- snaps at her bf
- outwardly brainwormed
- makes no effort to transition or pass
- no hrt
- worms about not having feminine shape despite not taking hrt
- calls her bf “not really trans” (i could get this if her bf wasn’t transitioning…but he’s literally transitioning more than she even is)
actually nvm i decided the gf is def in the wrong here


real