the bf:

good:

  • seems to want to be a man (fully transitioning)
  • compliments brainwormed gf and cares about her
  • tries to console her

bad:

  • self identifies as afab

the gf:

good:

  • is a woman (since i’m a woman i’m biased towards women)
  • dysphoric

bad:

  • snaps at her bf
  • outwardly brainwormed
  • makes no effort to transition or pass
  • no hrt
  • worms about not having feminine shape despite not taking hrt
  • calls her bf “not really trans” (i could get this if her bf wasn’t transitioning…but he’s literally transitioning more than she even is)

actually nvm i decided the gf is def in the wrong here