I have one dood friend who I’ve known since before he pooned out and that’s it. My therapist thought it might be good to meet other LGBT people, but I don’t care for it at all, I think 4tranners are the only ones I could get along with. Generally speaking I try to keep trans shit out of my real life as much as possible and instead vent on the internet. How do you handle this? Do you actively look for LGBT acquaintances? I’d be interested in your stories.

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    Or I just try to focus on gigapassing first…then there would be nothing I would fear.

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      i dont think passing would really help with that passing would only stop other people from thinking youre invading womens spaces which generally doesnt happen i think even if you pass you will see yourself as invading womens spaces to some degree

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        11 days ago

        Yeah, maybe in an impostor syndrome kind of way, I could see that…I’m very vulnerable to that in general.

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          11 days ago

          most trannies are unfortunately i am too

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            I wonder how to get over this. I always hoped gigapassing might be the way. Unfortunately my gf says imposter syndrome is generally part of the female experience, many cis women experience it too.

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              most cis women do experience it i think maybe talk about it with your therapist they probably know much better how to fix it than i do