this entire site is passoids whining about how well they pass or how they dont pass and it makes me feel like shit.

i dont know ehere else to go though since i never fit in in any community people just hate me on sight i dont get it.

when i showed someone from here a picture of my silhouette, they went from saying i’m probably wormed and look fine, to saying that passing isn’t what matters.

  • Wandering
    21·
    2 months ago

    if this place is making your mental health worse, then you should leave

    • honlarperlarperBannedOP
      1·
      2 months ago

      and then have absolutely zero social interaction in my life. great idea !!!

      • Wandering
        1·
        2 months ago

        find different people to socialize with who don’t make your mental health worse

          • Wandering
            1·
            2 months ago

            I guess keep looking. I’m not trying to be mean or anything, but this place can actively be harmful to certain people’s mental health. 🫂

          • 🐝Yearn4Freedom🐝
            1·
            2 months ago

            Try talking to Tranistanis one on one

            Or make a small group of 3 to 5

            Like on matrix or discord

            Put it in your bio with a quick explanation of what kind of people you wanna talk with

            Deep connection is cooler and better than dozens and hundreds of random tranners replying to you

            I just thought of this and I think I’ll do my own one 😝 it’ll be nice

  • honlarperlarperBannedOP
    1·
    2 months ago

    i feel like i might be the only actual hon on the internet. when i complain to people about how i’ll never pass they say im wormned and look fine, then when they see what i look like it shifts to “passing doesnt matter hon!”. this wasn’t a one time thing. this happens CONSTANTLY.