• Wandering
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    in very rare cases, and with enough time, maybe. I genuinely believe my mother sees me as her daughter, for example. my family is the only people I talk to from pre or early transition though.

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      GIWTWM… I hate you… why are you here… go abd be happy… stop bragging by existing 😭

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        I’m here to be a counterpoint to the endless dooming I guess. I am lucky to have at least one accepting parent.

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          Your happiness increases our doom… We need hon happiness… I guess… sorry… But anyways… I’m happy for you.

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            :( perhaps for you, but maybe not everyone.

            and it’s not like I passed my entire transition, I’d say I was firmly twinkhon for the first 5 or so years at least, and I still have clockable features like my bideltoid (aka not a gigapassoid).

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        A case to case basis, like some people might see you as a woman some might not, your behavior during your early transition could have influenced it, the way they see you can still end up changing…