• CutePlushies
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    2 days ago

    I think people are moreso annoyed at you for complaining about things that objectively do not make you clocky, rather than saying you 100% pass as cis.

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    people here these days think “i think this person mogs me in some way, therefore, they are a passoid and a honlarper”. the mogging could be real or imagined, it doesn’t matter.

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      Honlarping is more like “This girl is whining about something that does not make them clocky” than it is “This girl 1000% passes as cis and will never be misgendered”

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        honlarpering isn’t even real. most claimed honlarpers aren’t larping. they know their bodies better than some random internet strangers. a selfie isn’t a reliable indicator of how much somebody passes or what they really look like.

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          Take yourself for example, Neptune. You have an objectively luckshit and not clocky height and midface. Therefore any complaining about those things I will see as honlarping. I am very much unaware of the rest of your body, so I’m not gonna say you’re honlarping about those things because you very well might not be.

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            2 days ago

            i don’t complain about those things, i complain about other things and people still get mad, as if somehow having a couple luckshit traits out weighs literally everything else about my body which is fucked.

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              Hmm. No I suppose you are right. I guess my own accusation was just from you saying you passed pre hrt

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                2 days ago

                i didn’t pass, i don’t pass now. not even close to passing, and likely never will. i just said i malefailed occasionally pre-e.

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      2 days ago

      “everyone is a real woman but me” syndrome

      (i also suffer from this)

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      2 days ago

      hugboxing is really common now, too, i’ve seen it happen to a bunch of other people that aren’t me.