I’m not even kidding. I think I’ve figured it out, to get a boyfriend I just have to be more malebrained. Guys find it cute when you share their interests and stuff and years of girl(hon)moding and obsessing over things has made too many of their interests fly off my radar, so now I come off as uninteresting to them. I can blame being a shoulderhon all I want, but like objectively speaking there are trans girls I know who are like at least 3 inches taller than me also with wide shoulders who are basically married to a dominant guy (sometimes even shorter than her which opens the pool a lot!) so its obviously not just that. I lost like a lot of my old gaming interests and stuff over time besides pokemon and I’m starting to think that’s my downfall. What do men like? What should I be talking with them about?
FURTHERMORE the one time I did have a boyfriend, it was because we bonded over like Five nights at freddy’s lore. That’s malebrained as fuck!!!
>the one time I did have a boyfriend
Give me one reason not to ban you right now
it was an online relationship where nothing happened and we broke up in 3 weeks because I was too ugly
Don’t become malebrained just become ASPDbrained and mirror their interests and pretend to share them
i feel like if i get a boyfriend with this insane malebrainness factor i have rn it will feel like 2 gay dudes being in a relationship soooo idk something to consider ig maybe stay fembrained
the key is to be cute and feminine about your malebrain factor I think. Like to know a lot about the things, but talk about them in a more normal, less moidbrained way maybe.
how to be cute and feminine about this if i look like a hulking man tho
voicetrain and be it online bc same
develop nerdy hobbies like board games, tabletop roleplaying, or team shooter games. men love gaming.
I guess men love sports also? you could learn sports too I guess
