I’m not even kidding. I think I’ve figured it out, to get a boyfriend I just have to be more malebrained. Guys find it cute when you share their interests and stuff and years of girl(hon)moding and obsessing over things has made too many of their interests fly off my radar, so now I come off as uninteresting to them. I can blame being a shoulderhon all I want, but like objectively speaking there are trans girls I know who are like at least 3 inches taller than me also with wide shoulders who are basically married to a dominant guy (sometimes even shorter than her which opens the pool a lot!) so its obviously not just that. I lost like a lot of my old gaming interests and stuff over time besides pokemon and I’m starting to think that’s my downfall. What do men like? What should I be talking with them about?