that i wont neglect and my husband wont abuse and well love her to the ends of the earth and shell be happy

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      I don’t believe that anyone on this site is fit for it. Not everyone can become an astronaut, even if they really want to.

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          I don’t feel any desire to coddle natalists.

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            It’s not really limited to this post, but your anti-natalist posts are best kept somewhere else. You didn’t even specify natalists, you specified trannies. Make a critique of your own instead of telling a dysphoric person she will never be a mother and could never be a good one. How lazy.

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                I would rather her not leave over something small like taking down accountability is all, and it would weigh on me a bit if I were responsible. If it’s tagged and flaired I think it would be an interesting discussion topic. But there is kind of a big clash between dysphoric women who want children and staunch anti-natalists. Maybe one unhealthy for both groups.

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              You are right. I tried to be nice on my other accounts, but I can’t, I’m not suited to coexist with other people. I will leave soon. I will refrain from commenting anymore.

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                that’s really not what I meant. there isn’t really any need to leave, and my conduct critiquing your decorum wasn’t supposed to be the final proof of your inherent otherness. I agree with many anti-natalist viewpoints. I simply believe there is a time and place for somethings, that is all. I would be fascinated by an anti-natalist post from you, and an explanation of your reasoning and where these beliefs came from. I just think that this very sad dysphoric woman’s comments were not the place. I’m very mean often, sometimes it can’t be helped. That really wasn’t what the I was trying to to impart, however. We do want you here.

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                if ur rosy, just avoid like 1-2 topics, u get along fine 95% of the time.

                these r issues that wont come into play for almost any of us and are ideal yearning.

                if u arentt rosy, avoid natalist topics or be far far clearer with ur issues with it and dont make pointed remarks. it will just cause anger

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        That’s a pretty harsh assumption. Yeah sure, the majority of mfs on this site are currently too mentally ill for parenthood, but not all

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          Overwhelming majority of people are not fit for parenthood. It is fair to assume that people who browse a website for mentally ill and suicidal people are not fit for parenthood.

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            If you feel that strongly, by all means make an anti-natalist post that shows someone with an incongruence brain map the light.