Sexualities! How many of us have them? A question that I’ve always been interested in around here. While “I literally despise my ability to feel arousal.” takes are welcome, I’m interested in more positive views as well. They seem more uncommon.

  • RtHonAlice
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    8 days ago

    In my case it seems to be locked behind love. Even on testosterone I wasn’t interested in sex and if I wasn’t in a relationship I could die without anything sexual ever happening again and wouldn’t care for it at all. I don’t have any fetish or paraphilia either. To me sex is dull, lowbrow entertainment. I don’t care for it. I loathe people who see me sexually and couldn’t be around them, it would make me feel uncomfortable. But with a partner I love and who accepts me as who I am it seems to be different. I like being treated gently, getting compliments, making compliments, just taking care of each other. My partner means the world to me. Maybe that’s why my body/mind makes an exception for her. I have to admit I find myself yearning for her touch on some days. I don’t mind it, it makes me feel alive, almost normal.

    this seems relateable

    https://boards.4chan.org/lgbt/thread/43112766

      • RtHonAlice
        2·
        8 days ago

        Thank you…I often feel strange with all the hornyposting, people are into such wild stuff I could never imagine. I questioned whether I should even make that post because I am so boring.

          • RtHonAlice
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            7 days ago

            I think I answered because I can’t sleep thanks to a nightmare and I believe you actually care. I have only spoken with one other person about this.