even when I try be normal I just end up being annoying. its horrible, either I act my usual self and I annoy ppl, or I don’t and I end up breaking then annoying people. I want to socialise with ppl but I hate socialising at the same time it’s weird

  • j3n
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    taps the sign

    not being able to help having a distinct personality isnt so bad, but it does filter people

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    You’re not annoying but you shouldn’t care either way. Who cares if someone on the internet thinks you’re annoying, you’re never gonna meet them and their opinion should mean nothing to you

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        Teens call everyone annoying, never trust teens. Plus a lot can change in the time you were at that school to now, maybe you were annoying at some point but you’re definitely not annoying now. Don’t believe stuff told to you a long time ago

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      I second this. Once you stop being self conscious of being annoying you naturally improve and feel much better.

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        Remind yourself that it isn’t a moral failing. Do you think people who annoy you are deplorable? No. It’s just what happens when two people don’t really match personality wise and that’s okay. If you’re a weird person normal people might find you annoying, but the question you should ask yourself is if you would even want to be around people who are annoyed by you. Do they annoy you?