I’m literally 5’5 (is really 5’4) and it’s literally overrrrrrr. height isn’t everything that matters! look at my measurements! (perfectly fine and usually above average measumrents. maybe one bad one that can be frauded fairly easily) measurements aren’t everything either! look at my X! (something that will be solved by natural transition or a surgery) (eventually, they pass as a woman. They have two choices here. They are totally BDD and see themselves as an ugly twinkhon despite male failing and passing constantly, and remind everyone of it.) (Or they bragpost because they still have a desperate need for attention but aren’t good enough at making cis friends yet and remain in neverpasser spaces out of some vague sense of inertia)

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      Wait, which one am I?!

      Be mean to me directlyyyyyy, I’m too aloof to attack obliquely 🤷🏻‍♀️

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          Hmmmmmmmm

          I think I pass-pass in like 20% of circumstances (like, the shape of me generally passes from a distance I think? At least that is my assumption based upon the amount of men in trucks that stop to let me cross the road?)

          I polite-pass in all situations, because I do lots of stuff to overtly visually signal “woman” and where I live and travel most people don’t want to start internet fights IRL 🤷🏻‍♀️

          I think I generally (prolly like 60%?) soul pass with other women, or at least that is my assessment based upon the amount of social interactions that begin with some tension and end with comfort (the crown jewel is when they say ‘women’ in the collective sense and include me !)

          But then again, I never really went in on all the crazy standards and brainworms associated with this community, I just like you all cause you at least admit being trans isn’t a thing anybody wants, and when I call myself a ‘cursed-woman’ and talk about ‘pureblooded’ women, the ARR EM TEE EFF crowd try to cure me and fuck them 🖕🏻

          So that is all to say, prolly not a “P@$$0¡d” in the dreaded sense of the word bandied about in these vaunted halls, but I am nothing if not hopeful and happier since starting transition and HRT 🤗

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            this was post was a joke, but I do appreciate the thorough response. I don’t really have that many crazy standards or brainworms either. (unlike the girls here measuring their thumb circumference…) I wish the best for you!

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              Thank you for saying such. I only took the time because I know you to be one of the very 3-dimensional women here who think and speak in the nuances of reality, so knowing that, it inspired me to actually reflect upon what “passing” means to me and how the concept interacts with my day to day lived experience - thanks for being the woman that you are 🫶🏻