I don’t say anything because he won’t give a fuck

Shows me the picture

Browbone jumpscare

FUCK YOU FUCK YOU FUCK YOU FUCK YOU

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      please value yourself. talk to him about how it makes you feel if you feel like youre able to

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        He doesn’t know I’m trans so there isn’t really anything I can say. I tried they don’t really care it’s just a joke to them

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          it doesnt have to be a trans thing. you can just say you really really hate having your photo taken. if theyre actually your friends they will understand

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            Yeah, this is how I was pre transition and everyone (except family LOL, typical. Tho i can’t even get them to stop now) listened

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              I doubt they will. It doesn’t happen that frequently anyway.

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      He’s just doing it for shits and giggles I get that but dear god…

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        as i said

        please value yourself. talk to him about how it makes you feel if you feel like youre able to

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      I think you worded wrong…

      But in case you meant “tell him that he can’t just…” then it’s not so easy…

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        Yes it is that easy… he isn’t allowed to do that. Aren’t there laws against that?

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            You know what I mean… I’m just saying tell him that it makes you uncomfortable and that he needs to stop and you don’t accept it

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              yea well it’s not that easy 😭😭 I tried before they just brush it off because why would anyone care about a silly photo of themselves???

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                No it’s completely reasonable to be upset about a picture… that’s your face and your likeness… you have every right to controll that… if it’s “just a picture” why can’t he also edit it to make you look horrific… no this is your likeness and you have a right, legally and socially, over that…

                It is not unreasonable.

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                  I appreciate the thought but I would rather not be viewed as a sensitive crybaby by some of the only friends I have…

                  I really need to meet more people…