My parents continue to ask me to cut my fuckin’ hair. I DON’T WANT TO. I would feel soooo dysphoric also if I cut like… just 1 cm of my hair. And men can have long hair too! I know I’ll never be a woman, but I don’t want shorter hair!!! How can I make em stop???

  • sophia
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    22 days ago

    when i was a kid i would scream and threaten suicide when they tried to make me get a haircut just raise a fuss

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        22 days ago

        its just bad that a child has to try to kill themselves just so they can not cut their hair

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          22 days ago

          its insane how hard they go on it, parents want their little doll or whatever. i guess if you want to control people like that being a parent is the easiest way because you can basically do whatever you want to a kid you “own”

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      22 days ago

      Should I try threatening suicide to make em use she/her?

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        22 days ago

        mine still dont and ive attempted multiple times so idk it depends on what your parents are like

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        22 days ago

        If you live in a country where they can’t send you to conversion therapy, then the worst that could happen is that they would hate you even more. Personally not my method of choice.

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          22 days ago

          Idk how is conversion therapy here… but I’m an adult sooo I don’t think they can do that