I met her around a year ago by now when i was 17 (and she was 16) on 4t4 during one of my many dysphoriaposting sessions, and we became close friends, with her even helping me get diy, and have talked regularly since. In the past 2 months, presumably after she met pastagirl (whose age i am only hearing about now) she seemingly began to isolate herself from her previously wide friendgroup, ghosting many without explanation - I recently started talking to a person she introduced me to last summer and found out that she did that to pm anyone who knew her before that. i specifically was the one who she formerly considered her best friend, which is presumably why she occasionally came back and reassured that she still wanted to be friends before ghosting me again. Yesterday after the 4th or so instance of her ghosting me for multiple days I finally decided to set boundaries and say that i will block her if she continues to do this, leading to her answering that she just didnt care anymore, and the end of our friendship. Making this post to get some sort of personal closure by saying this out loud, as well as to not get allegations in the future, as seeing pastagirl add me to the list of people who were aware was really disturbing

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    I worry there is something rly abusive going on between those two :(

    and I’m really sry for your loss:(

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    Oh so pasta isn’t just bad, but an actual fucking groomer. (Not surprising ig) fuck

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      all minors are bastards /hj

      i didnt knew she is this weird

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        I wouldn’t blame pizzaboy for it. what’s fucking me up is pastagirl wanted pzby to move in.

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            I feel sad for pizzaboy as she is a minor being preyed on. agree on pastagirl being expelled. I just don’t know what can be done for her (pizzaboy)

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    I don’t wanna say anything but pastagirl’s age in relation to pizzaboy and all of this is very disturbing

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    I hoped the two were just friends but now honestly I think the hate for pastagirl is deeply deserved because it seems like there is some very abusive stuff going on between them. Groomer shit.

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      not sure if it was more well known but pastagirl wanted pizzaboy to move in with them. which now that I know their ages is incredibly fucked up