who knows! it eats me up every single time cuz apparently a friend says i look like a theyfab but my coworker they/themed me after trying to figure out if we went to middle school together so i keep thinking about that cuz like what if she knows :sob: i cant even just go up to her and ask if she thinks im a tranny or a theyfab cuz thatll out me as a tranny, but also tbh this is enough of a nonissue that it doesnt really matter that much it just keeps eating me up cuz im stupid and any trivial issue is a good distraction from the real issues i cant fix