My friends constantly call me tranny, I don’t react but it’s beginning to really bother me. I hate being othered and degraded especially since a lot of my life is like that. But I feel like if I do get mad I’ll be a bad tranny and they’ll hate.
Sometimes it just really really hurts though. Like my friend I’ve been known for 7 years and I’ve always been good to. When my friends went to the mall without me and I asked why, he said “because we didn’t want you there, tranny”. And it just really hurt me, when he said it like that. I’ve been close to him for so long and he was like my best friend in middle school and it’s amazing we’re still friends.
Should I tell them to stop saying it?
Yes. I’ve changed my mind. I should confront him or my other friends the next time it happens. Thank you ❤️
it may not be as easy, but you dont have to wait until they do it again to say something. just because you acted like it was ok doesnt mean it really was, and they know better. i wish you luck in whatever you choose. take care