My friends constantly call me tranny, I don’t react but it’s beginning to really bother me. I hate being othered and degraded especially since a lot of my life is like that. But I feel like if I do get mad I’ll be a bad tranny and they’ll hate.

Sometimes it just really really hurts though. Like my friend I’ve been known for 7 years and I’ve always been good to. When my friends went to the mall without me and I asked why, he said “because we didn’t want you there, tranny”. And it just really hurt me, when he said it like that. I’ve been close to him for so long and he was like my best friend in middle school and it’s amazing we’re still friends.

Should I tell them to stop saying it?

    • DepressomoderOP
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      20 days ago

      I am not sure. He is kind of just an angry person in general and doesn’t mean a lot of what he says

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        20 days ago

        i would unironically call him a cissy and a magacuck, his validity as a friend depends if he would be pissed at that

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          20 days ago

          He probably wouldn’t just argue back though and go on a rant about it.

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            20 days ago

            then hes just an intense person, like me. if its too much for you, you could ask him to turn it down, usually normal ppl will oblige, if its too much for you, maybe thats not good for you two to be friends