i feel like it’s better to not get your hopes up and it’s safer that way but also kinda miserable idk

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      well i dont get honfident, i basically just assume that everyone sees me as a tranny and that’s mostly borne out

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          16 days ago

          do you think you’d be happier if u let your expectations go up?

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            16 days ago

            no

            i generally do think of myself as more or less a woman when im honmoding tho, i think thats important to my mental wellbeing

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              16 days ago

              i guess my problem is that i usually see myself as a crossdresser

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        16 days ago

        yea that’s what i do too but it makes me paranoid and anxious in like every social situation