i feel like it’s better to not get your hopes up and it’s safer that way but also kinda miserable idk
i do this
do u find it helpful
well i dont get honfident, i basically just assume that everyone sees me as a tranny and that’s mostly borne out
keeps my expectations nice and low
do you think you’d be happier if u let your expectations go up?
no
i generally do think of myself as more or less a woman when im honmoding tho, i think thats important to my mental wellbeing
i guess my problem is that i usually see myself as a crossdresser
that would definitely fuck u up yeah
yea that’s what i do too but it makes me paranoid and anxious in like every social situation
i dk what else i would do really
you could tell yourself that u pass
hmmm
u know what actually i think girl moding = you are trying/hoping to pass or u assume passing to be like neutral i guess and what we are talking about is honmoding
oh i use them kinda interchangeably depending on how negative i wanna be towards myself. i feel like when ur a twinkhon and u semipass its kinda a weird grey zone on which to use
oh im a manmoder so it doesnt really come up for me lol
