Both my parents are white (white mom black dad, mom remarried to my now white step-dad).

Had a buzzcut my whole life before my parents don’t know how to care of my hair type. (I am also starting to suspect that they are low-key racist (why was was growing out my hair longer than inch considered “unprofessional”??? (plus their media diet is definitely 100% racist(plus they hang out with racists…) )

If everything was exactly the same, except I was white, I would have been a PRIME femboy. I would of have beautiful long hair. I HATED having my hair cut. If I was white they wouldn’t have cut it so short all the time. Being allowed to be feminine when I was younger would have let me figure out my gender was transed much sooner.

KILLING MYSELF!

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    Complaining about your childhood at 26 LOL

    Unc you’re supposed to have gotten over this shit by now

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      To quote a straight gay-cultured jewish italian:

      “Would you feel safer on the 36th floor if you knew the entire foundation was fucked up?”

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    i wish nothing but success for you whenever i hear about the extra struggles ontop of being trans it just breaks my heart, especially when you get into the macho culture that a lot of POC end up having to deal with, and the views from other races like your white parents and such, im sorry you had to go through that

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    I’ve thought about this too. The black youngshits I see online are mixed or adopted into white families.

    I was an idiot as a kid so the only trans rep I saw was of children who were not black, so obviously transgender black people don’t exist and I’m not real.

    Black individuals start puberty earlier as well. Fucked before conception.