Wow, a place for us already deemed ugly and masculine just because of our colour and ethnicity. Like seriously? How do you cope with that honestly?
White woman are so pretty and they are seen as the pinnacle of beauty because of their beautiful color and features. Yes Karens exist but young white women are still seen as the highest beauty.
And then there are all the other women…
TW: Racist sterotypes ahead:
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Black women are seen as “loud tongued, hyper female dimorphic traits, fat ugly ass and boobs and still are seen as masculine, tough, labourous and muscular”…
Indian women are seen as “dirty, ugly teeth, hairy, curry colored, poor, low IQ, cotton factory workers with big fat eyebrows and stronger facial hair…”
“Chinese women are men because who can tell the difference honestly, also their faces are circles with one dot and two lines as facial features…”
“Arab women are loud, disgustingly self sexualizing and orientalizing, patriarchically domesticated, low IQ, hairy, fat, poor, seen as masculine, with fucked up teeth, and dirty sand colored skin, shallow and air headed and gold diggers and so fucking sneedy.”
We are all disgusting. We are exotics for men to fuck and then discard after they “experimented” with us or had their first “black/asian/arab… one” to try and see how they feel about our racialized ugly bodies.
How do you even Beginn to cope with that???
God, please make the fucking pain stop.
I’m sorry everybody that I’m a bad person.
:(( I’m so so sorry girl, internalized racism is horrible. Experiencing it doesn’t make you a bad person, and I’m glad you put a TW before sharing the more extreme stuff.
The fetishization we experience isn’t our fault, it’s the fault of a society based on racism. Men that treat us like exotics don’t deserve a second of our attention. The people that might deserve our attention are those that accomplish the bare minimum: seeing us as humans and treating us as no different to white people.
White women are seen as prettier solely because of how terribly Eurocentric beauty standards have poisoned people. If you are unattractive to a person solely due to your skin, that person didn’t deserve your attention in the first place.
I understand how deep running this hate is though… It’s part of the reason I hope to exclusively date WOC.
I just feel so ugly… even when compared to white trans women. And there is nobody like me out there. I search for pictures of arab trans women and they simply don’t exist. I don’t exist. There is nobody too look up to. And heck, I’m not even some poor cis arab girl that is sad about white beauty standards. I’m some dumb delusional moid… God, I just feel so ugly and unlovable (even as a dumb repper moid)
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You’re an arab girl who’s being affected by misogyny & racism. Trans or cis, the fact you feel ugly and unlovable due to these standards is proof enough.
I understand how it feels to feel like you’re the only one like yourself :<<, even if realistically there are more people like you out there. I’m so sorry, sending hugs 🫂🫂🫂
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Also please don’t ban me. I’m sorry that I’m a bad person and having said racist stuff :(
